Hi. I too am 51 and have invasive, aggressive bladder cancer. Only found out I had 4 tumors at the end of October and on December 20th had surgery to remove them. All were removed except for all of the 1 that was 7cm in size which was also growing into my bladder wall. I was told from the urologist that part or all of my bladder will need to be removed along with chemotherapy. Now I just wait for the pathology results. 🤷‍♀️ I see that your comment was posted earlier this year, can I please ask what has happened since your post?