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This is kind of new, food not tasting right so…they’ve prescribed mouth rinses due to what they say is common for Chronic GVHD. Redness & sensitivity in the mouth, textures of food…Another thing they/we are trying to figure out is about his vision…he has basically no peripheral vision & his eyes feel like they have sand in them as he describes it. We have prescription eye drops, we have comfort drops & overnight gel drops but…again, he won’t let me apply them regularly. He’s a wonderful proud man that is determined to fight both illnesses his way but it’s definitely not working & it’s tearing me apart right now. Other symptoms of the GVHD is a rash that’s developing on his left forearm. It looks like a big purple birth mark that some people have. Fred Hutch (F/H) as I will refer to them from now on is keeping an eye on this too. He also had lower back surgery to remove a cyst that was causing him extreme pain removed just in September & they found a herniated disk under it that was blocked by the cyst in both CT & MRI. They repaired that. He also has what presents as spinal stenosis at the base of his neck which is causing him a lot of pain but the neurosurgeon is weary of doing another surgery right now due to the Prednisone he’s on.
Wow! I REALLY appreciate the outreach right now. Doing this is all new to me.
I’m taking things one day at a time right now.
I can answer more questions tomorrow but I need to get his evening meds together & try to get a few hours of sleep myself, if I can.

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Oh my heart goes out to you. You are showing such courage and love under such intense circumstances.
My husband had an allogenic transplant this last August at Mayo Rochester to treat his high risk MDS. It has been quite a ride with blood infections, c diff and sluggish blood counts. My husband is 74 (“a young 74” he insists) and is, like your husband, used to being very strong active and independent.
As Lori says, allogenic BMT was a whole new thing and took every coping skill each of us has. I manage his meds and appointments. For awhile there were personal cares and just the constant vigilance.
I had a lot of support long distance from friends and family and my husband always does his best to cooperate although he hates to ask for help and would often gloss over symptoms. I was there to bring the realness.
We just got home a month ago. I still cry with joy nearly every day.
We continue to face challenges and the possibility of relapse as his chimerism is not coming on very strong.
Please please give yourself grace and get every bit of help you can. This is an epic journey and will take all you have, but each day is a new chapter. Blessings on you and your dear one.