Well I have a hard truth that is usually tied to addiction. Let go let God. I believe it means get help for you. What happens to your son is out of your control. If we have comorbities including psychiatric ones it is our responsibility to seek and get appropriate care and then follow the treatment plan.I am still being taught thjs lesson .Let go let God. I do not control others. I am a retired nurse. Was RN. It took many therapy lessons to learn it is OK to let others fail.I havd many codependent traits . From the way I was raised and my career.i always have to work on this.

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