I always had extra Depends pads or the depends underwear in my truck and car . And carried an extra pad in my jacket Always wore dark jeans or dress pants. Won’t show has bad if you leak urine . Occasionally my bladder let go and you are wet.. jeans will be soaked also. Be a good idea to have another pair of jeans in your vehicle. If you’re not any better in keeping dry after 1 month talk to your dr about seeing a Physical Therapist to get more bladder control. Might help. I leaked all the time. Just drying off after a shower urine ran out of me. My surgeon said do nothing for 3 months.. no lifting grocery bags no pull starting mower . blower . Weed eater. Had my neighbors mowed for 3 months.. I went for a walk first thing in morning and leaked a lot then took shower and than took another shower before I went to bed. Hope you get control of your bladder .. I did not .