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@jackiez

@my44 everything has a risk associated with it. I try to weigh the risk/reward when I choose to fly, go out to eat, etc. I control what I can. But you are right, you might be seated next to someone who has a cough or cold. That was my worst fear. And yes, I was apprehensive when I flew. We make a hundred choices every day that impacts our health-what we put in our mouth, who we see, what we do. My transplant influences me but it doesn’t define me. I still make choices to live a full life-everyone has a different definition of what that is.

I did ask my transplant coordinator about air travel as I have a work reward trip that I need to attend outside the US - she told me to ‘go for it’. I will ask again closer to the trip and take into account their recommendation too.

I hope this helps. It is a personal choice. And it’s a tricky one.

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Hi @jackiez.
Thank you for your response. It definitely does help, and I accept and embrace everything you said.
In addition to the great advice you gave me in your earlier post, my main takeaways from what you mentioned in this post are: I need to get past my apprehensions, weigh the risks vs rewards, control what I can, and choose to live a full life. I will definitely follow that advice.
But my biggest takeaway from what you said is: “My transplant influences me but it doesn’t define me.” And I plan to adopt that attitude and remind myself of it every day.
I also like your transplant coordinator’s advice to “go for it.” And when I’m ready to travel, I’ll check with my transplant coordinator and, hopefully, she will give me that same reassurance and encouragement,
Thanks, again, @jackiez, you have been a tremendous help and inspiration to me.