Bladder Cancer Group: Introduce yourself and connect with others

Welcome to the Bladder Cancer support group on Mayo Clinic Connect.

This is a welcoming, safe place where you can meet people living with bladder cancer or caring for someone with bladder cancer. Let’s learn from each other and share stories about living well with cancer, coping with the challenges and offering tips.

Feel free to browse the topics, use the group search to find answers to your questions or start a new discussion.

Pull up a chair. Let’s start with introductions.

What type of bladder cancer were you diagnosed with? What treatments have you had? How are you doing?

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Bladder Cancer Support Group.

@jimg56

Hello everyone,
I have joined on behalf of my husband. He has non invasive carcinoma bladder cancer. He had a turbst in june and in sept the cancer was back. Drs have been slow with starting any treatments. He was suppose to start BCG treatments nov 14 but they do not have availability due to the WW shortage.
Next app is dec 3 @ sloan k. For cystocopy.
As of right now sloan does not have the bcg.
I am hopeful and will insist the alternate treatment i have read about on here is used.
Nice to meet all of you.
Catherine

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Hi there,
We were told by MSK that they didn’t have BCG back in November. Our local urologist had it though and my husband was able to start treatment. Through the nurse I heard they have another patient who had been traveling long distances (Allentown to Philadelphia)for BCG which was too difficult for him. He was able to be referred and get BCG at our local urologist as well. So maybe there might be urologists near you with BCG supply that aren’t at the major medical centers. It might take calling around or seeing a local urologist and asking for help locating BCG through their professional networks. Just a thought.

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@jowilliams1

Yes, I have a port. I was glad to have it for chemo as it made things easier on me.

Chemo was difficult. The farther along, the harder it got. Nausea and overall fatigue were my biggest issues. So glad to have that behind me. I had surgery in Nov and now have a neobladder.

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How has your neo bladder recovery going. I’m interested in the outcome vs
Other options if and when I need to do it. Thank you

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@scott232

How has your neo bladder recovery going. I’m interested in the outcome vs
Other options if and when I need to do it. Thank you

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I've been pleasantly surprised with my neobladder! My surgeon prepared me well mentally for the challenges that I could run into but thankfully things have gone as we hoped. Of course it will take a while for it to work perfectly but realizing that ahead of time was important. It takes patience but I'm pleased at where I'm at and tomorrow will only be 6 weeks since my surgery. I have not had any complications. Recovery the first three weeks is particularly difficult but it gets easier each day.

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@sepdvm

Hello @louw and welcome to Connect. My husband has dealt with invasive bladder cancer for 5 years now. Initially he had surgery and chemo to remove a small diverticulum off the bladder where the cancer was found. Lymph node removal at that time showed one positive node so the chemo was done, as well as Gemzar in the bladder. Continued recurrence and a failure on BCG and Keytruda ended up with a radical cystectomy and prostatectomy with Neobladder creation at Mayo Clinic in Rochester. He did not want a Urostomy so this was his choice. He has experienced many complications due to this surgery but now that all have been dealt with, he is happy with the outcome. He does self catheterize 3 times a day. He was 69 when he had this surgery. Others with this surgery have had better results but perhaps scarring from his initial surgery was an issue.
I recommend researching your options and forming questions for the surgeon. You want a urologic surgeon who has done many of the procedures. Referral to a large specialty center is an option. It is a big surgery with a week or more of hospitalization. It can produce a cure, though, and that is what is most important.

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Thank you. I'm 66 and have a great surgeon at UMass. I'm also getting a 2nd opinion at Mass general cancer center today. I met with the Umass oncologist yesterday and she outlined the program for chemo. I'm optimistic with what I've been told and am coming to terms with the bladder removal. It helps to hear other people's stories. Thank you

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@vars57

Hi. My name is Steve. I was diagnosed with high-grade papillary urothelial cell carcinoma back in September this year. I’ve had two TURBT resections since then. The first one I also received Gemcitabine. I’m getting ready to start a clinical trial the end of this month. I’ll either be receiving BCG immunotherapy or Gemcitibine/Docetraxel chemotherapy. I’m still trying to process everything. I’m anxious to get things started but a bit overwhelmed with what’s ahead. I’m hoping to find answers to questions and support on the site. Thanks!

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Hi @vars57 Steve, you might also be interested in this related discussion:
- CT scan standard for Papillary urothelial bladder cancer, high grade?
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/is-ct-scan-standard-care-for-papillary-urothelial-bladder-high-grade/
I can imagine you're anxious to get started with treatment and overwhelmed at the same time. When is your first treatment?

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Diagnosed (finally) with invasive, high grade papillary urothelial carcinoma. After Cystoscopy and TURBT urologist suggested cystectomy soon. That’s when I quickly began pursuing care and treatment at Mayo Clinic. Waiting now for triage consult. I have all the symptoms and pretty high level of discomfort, ie. pain. Quite rundown. I’m hoping to get my appointment moved up and get going on a plan. Have seen multiple providers over past months and months who all wanted to believe I either had uti, interstitial cystitis or just low estrogen. Very frustrating and dangerous.

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@louw

Thank you. I'm 66 and have a great surgeon at UMass. I'm also getting a 2nd opinion at Mass general cancer center today. I met with the Umass oncologist yesterday and she outlined the program for chemo. I'm optimistic with what I've been told and am coming to terms with the bladder removal. It helps to hear other people's stories. Thank you

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@louw, there are several discussions where members share about how to prepare for bladder removal. For example, see these related discussions:
- Looking to connect with people who had Cystectomy & Neobladder
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/cystectomy-neo-bladder-patients/
- Radical Cystectomy: Would like to hear the experiences of others
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/radical-cystectomy/
Will you have surgery then chemo?

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@colleenyoung

@louw, there are several discussions where members share about how to prepare for bladder removal. For example, see these related discussions:
- Looking to connect with people who had Cystectomy & Neobladder
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/cystectomy-neo-bladder-patients/
- Radical Cystectomy: Would like to hear the experiences of others
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/radical-cystectomy/
Will you have surgery then chemo?

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I'm scheduled for 6 cycles of cisplatin / gemcitabin with durvalumab. Then bladder/prostate removal with lymph nodes. Then 6 cycles of durvalumab. Praying that it hasn't spread through my lymph nodes.

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@barbara1

Diagnosed (finally) with invasive, high grade papillary urothelial carcinoma. After Cystoscopy and TURBT urologist suggested cystectomy soon. That’s when I quickly began pursuing care and treatment at Mayo Clinic. Waiting now for triage consult. I have all the symptoms and pretty high level of discomfort, ie. pain. Quite rundown. I’m hoping to get my appointment moved up and get going on a plan. Have seen multiple providers over past months and months who all wanted to believe I either had uti, interstitial cystitis or just low estrogen. Very frustrating and dangerous.

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Yes, women are not diagnosed as quickly as men from what I understand and this makes us more likely to be farther along once it's caught. Very frustrating to think it could have been caught earlier. I just had my bladder replaced with a neobladder in November. Unfortunately I didn't get the all clear and will start immunotherapy next week. I do feel better mentally knowing the bladder is out though. All the best to you!!

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@jowilliams1

Yes, women are not diagnosed as quickly as men from what I understand and this makes us more likely to be farther along once it's caught. Very frustrating to think it could have been caught earlier. I just had my bladder replaced with a neobladder in November. Unfortunately I didn't get the all clear and will start immunotherapy next week. I do feel better mentally knowing the bladder is out though. All the best to you!!

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First of all, you have my sympathy. I'm a male, age 82, and was dignosed with stage 4 bladder cancer nine months ago. I took immunotherapy for five months, which was quite brutal because I couldn't eat, had to force feed myself, etc. Anyway, I terminated the treatments and am now taking wholistic Fenbendazle (500mg). I quit the immunotherapy six months ago & am now recovering from the immunitherapy treatments, taste buds, neuropathy in my hands and feet. In a nutshell, I believe that the immunotherapy may be good for younger people, but not when in our 80s. Just my humble opinion!

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