SD is 59 and doesn't live with us but about 5 miles away. Back in June H had a scare with his heart and was in the ER for a bunch of tests and things while they checked him out. She showed up and started cajoling him into making her his executor/beneficiary if anything happened to him. Note, I was not in the room when this occurred and only found out about it later. Supposedly she would handle things for me. Yeah, right. She is not allowed in my house because she has stolen from me in the past.

FWIW. I, we, set her straight about our wills and we have not seen her physically since then (nothing in it for her). She is "off" in a lot of ways and scares the begesus out of me.