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I am Susan and new to this ....
I took my 73 year old husband to the emergency room due to rapidly declining memory loss. The hospital performed a CT scan where they saw a small mass near his pitutary gland . MRI and Lumbar puncture was performed as well. Once they were able to do a biopsy
to cofirm their suspiscion of PCNSL, they immediately started treating him. His body could not take the 2nd cycle of methotrexate, he started going into Kidney and Liver failure. He was discharged from the hospital when his organs were stable.
The next course of treatment was as an outpatient, reeceiving rituximab and cytarabine for four
cycles. He received an Mri at the end of the last cycle which revealed that the tumor was gone.
My husband has not been able to make any medical decison in regards tohid trearment.
Our adult sons and I decided to proceed with ASCT. The journey as my husbands care giver started 8 months ago. He is currently in rehab to build up his strength after the ASCT. The treatment was rough on his body.
He is very weak, does not eat much and is very depressed.
His short term memory as well as some long memory is not there. He will be discharged soon from the hospital
where he will receive in home rehab.
I do question myself, wether we made the right decision with the treatment. My husband was not in the best of health prior to the diagnosis; long time smoker, workalholic never exercised. I never did reach out for a 2nd opinon, which I regret. MD Anderson was only 3 hours away. Sometimes feelng alone and overwhelmed.

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Welcome to Connect, @smhk If I can ease your mind at all about not having a second opinion, MD Anderson is one of the top hematology/SCT centers in the US. Many patients go there for their second opinions. Considering your husband had a bone marrow transplant there and it’s only 3 hours from home, you made a really prudent choice.

Your husband and you have been through the wringer the past 8+ months with his cancer treatments and his stem cell transplant. You mentioned your husband had a stem cell transplant using his own cells. The recovery time can take several months but he should see a slow and steady improvement. Working with physical therapist will help quite a bit.

As a caregiver, wow, you had the brunt of all of this! I’m glad you did have backup with your adult sons. It helps when making these huge decisions. I had an Allogenic stem cell transplant 5- years ago, after several months battling AML My husband was my full time caregiver. Though he was a brick through all of it and handled things calmly and smoothly, I watched him age over that year!

We have a growing number of SCT members in our
Bone Marrow Transplant (BMT) & CAR-T Cell Therapy Support Group:
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/group/car-t-cell-therapy/
I promise you won’t be alone here. If you have any questions, need to vent, need a lifeline…I’m here along with a host of others to offer support.

Has your husband been working with a doctor for his memory issues?