I am so sorry to hear this as a person who also had reoccurrence of colon cancer to my liver (stage four). I got a second opnion in the beginning of my diagnosis and found an oncologist who is brilliant, compassionate, I can clearly understand him, and most of all I trust that he is doing everything he can for me. When you are truly comfortable with your cancer care team, the stress level goes way down. It is never too late for a second or even third opinion. Good luck to you.