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@hironopiro

Thank you for starting this topic @safetyshield It is of interest to me too.
I have one daughter who will be three years next February.
She recently started to go to daycare. One day she kept saying “I didn’t want to go to daycare. I was embarrassed because I am laughed at by everyone”. After my husband and I heard this comment, we were very shocked because this is the first time she mentioned her anxiety about the school. I gently asked her why she thought that way and also I asked teachers why she started saying this, however; I couldn’t find out why she said that at that time. She doesn’t say anything like that any more. However, I learned that this is a new life challenge for every parent. How can we best support our children when they face struggles at the school? How can we know the signals that there’s something wrong? It is sometimes hard to understand and control my feelings as a parent.

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@hironopiro I hope that your daughter is adjusting to day care, and that the issue of being laughed at was not a continuing issue. 3 year olds are adorable!! One suggestion I have for parents of young kids, is to make the discussion/question thing into a 'play' sort of thing. For instance, have one stuffed animal that you hold ask another stuffed animal that child holds, a question. By using cute creative little voices, it can become fun, and you might get some of the information that you seek. Just an idea.
My own boys' teddy bears could get more information out of them than I ever could coax out! And eventually teddy provided the opportunity to teach appropriate behaviors by using poor teddy as a misbehaving bear who sometimes needed to be set straight in his ways.
Rosemary