I haven't yet seen my situation mentioned here...
My wife had a massive stroke four years ago. It caused complete paralysis of her right arm and leg, along with loss of speech. She developed severe anger issues as a result of the brain damage. There is so much damage infact, she doesn't remember being married to me or any previous intimacy. I am not allowed to hug or kiss her. There is no touching of any kind allowed beyond the normal caregiver duties....clipping finger/toe nails, occasionally brushing hair, etc.... Any attempt at trying to show we were married... (pictures, videos, etc...) are met with a strong angry denial. I'm not allowed into any room if she will be in any state of undress. She'll start screaming and covering up like I am a complete stranger. I guess I am now. I'm unable to get her to see a neuropsychologist, counselor, etc... We actually had a good relationship and thirteen year marriage before that event.