Maybe I shouldn't answer your question. I'm one of those people who if the doctor says we are doing this, then I am on board. In my opinion he has more knowledge then I do. In your case he left the decision up to you. I'm not sure how I could handle that. That would give me lots of anxiety. I'm on adt but haven't had to have the radiation treatment up to this point. Maybe I should of just let this one go. I wish you the best on your journey.