A lot of interesting comments on this topic. My wife and I have enjoyed a good sex life for many years, up until the past three years. For some reason I developed ED and very low libido. I just went with the flow and we went without sexual contact. I was missing the intimacy with her a great deal. She is not one to talk about these things(raised in a very conservative family). A month or so ago, I bought her a somewhat modest button down sleep shirt in a flattering color. I told her that even though I can't perform to any real degree, I would certainly enjoy a closer contact occasionally. The first time she was ready, she put on the shirt, used a little perfume, and after turning down the lights a bit, we began to caress each other and cuddle. Kissing and exploring led to me giving her manual stimulation with some lubricant. I was enjoying her "fruits". I eventually developed a modest erection. I was able to bring her to a nice climax. I was not able to do so, but enjoyed the whole experience thoroughly,
So, now, when she wears that special night shirt, I know what to expect...three or four times a month we will enjoy each other in the best way possible. I hope this will help some of you out there.