Oh my goodness ! I totally hear and understand you ! I am not the one with LC it is my lovely fiance who has suffered for 42 months - therefore I suffer ( in a different way ) with him.
I am so sorry for what you are going through and you aren’t Debbie Downer - you are simply being honest and need to be heard and validated ! There is always “ someone” with more or worse ….. or whatevr BUT that doesn’t have anything to do with your situation . Long Covid has taken so much from those of you who suffer day in and out - weekly - hourly - etc and with no end it sight ( it feels like) . I absolutely hate that there is nothing I can do —— and to see him suffer is so very hard…… he is a totally different man. Unfortunately MOST people look like you have two heads when you “ try” to explain it . So —— allow yourself your feelings and when you are having good moments cherish them —— 🌺