Post radiation: How to be more patient with my recovery?

Posted by sue417 @sue417, Nov 5 1:50pm

Hi
I am going into my 6th month.Post radiation and my fatigue is a lot worse again. If I try to exercise I completely am wiped out the next day. am I being unrealistic by thinking I can do a twenty five minute walk on a treadmill? I do 2 upper body machines.That's it..
my doctor now is putting me on a effexor Because I am so exhausted depressed and fatigued😩. I have lost 25lbs since this process started. I am making myself eat. I don't have an appetite. I'm actually feeling afraid I wish someone could tell me that I just need to be more patient and stop trying to be back to "normal"

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@sue417

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Omg what a horrid ordeal you have gone thru. I am so sorry . Yes it's difficult to know what to do. Did you have any previous health conditions prior to cancer. I sometimes wonder If they overdid me because my cancer was stage 0. There was a microscopic break in one of the walls in the milk ducts. I knew I would not do any of the AI's after researching them. I did try tamoxifen for 2 wks it was horrid. The effexor has been difficult as far as stomach issues but I feel the difference with the depression. I will give it 2 weeks and if the stomach issue is not resolved.I am stopping. I think I would have not done the radiation. I would still have done the lumpectomy and sentinal node.

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No preexisting health issues besides high blood pressure. Now I take four meds to counteract the effects of the Letrozole. No kidding.

Hope you get good results. I was stage 1 and caught very early. I still would have made very different choices if I knew more.

My best advice to anyone is to take your time making choices - even though the thought of having cancer growing inside you is beyond frightening - the result in the treatment you choose is critical.

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@tracyanne

I feel exactly the same way.
If this recurrs my next step will be exactly that. It has been a nightmare. Radiation nerve damage, lymphedema, fibrosis, chronic horrible pain, deep thick painful scar tissue which may require removal.
If only I knew...

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Well I had to stop the effexor. Those drugs are horrid what they do to your body. I just went back to my natural pathic.Body responds better to that, so I'm back on my 5H.T p for depression and i'm seeing her monday tomorrow to go on some homeopathics to deal with the menopause issue. They certainly don't try to give women any options.But an an anti depressant after brush cancer.I think it's wrong. They need to give women a better option than those a I drugs which destroys so much of your body.

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@sue417

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Well I had to stop the effexor. Those drugs are horrid what they do to your body. I just went back to my natural pathic.Body responds better to that, so I'm back on my 5H.T p for depression and i'm seeing her monday tomorrow to go on some homeopathics to deal with the menopause issue. They certainly don't try to give women any options.But an an anti depressant after brush cancer.I think it's wrong. They need to give women a better option than those a I drugs which destroys so much of your body.

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Maybe a walk outdoors is better than the treadmill. Nature can lift your mood and relax your body. Whenever I’m on treadmill, I keep checking the time. If I walk outdoor, I’m relaxed and don’t even look at my watch.

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I’m 61. I finished radiation 6-23 and have just had a breakthrough with fatigue stopping 9-24. I do Yoga, Pranayama and acupuncture and started to add a little strength training. I’m at a “ new” normal. I’m good with that. Doing all my little routine things help me stay physically and mentally well. Do I worry about cancer coming back? I don’t think I worry about it coming back- but I do get anxious at check ups and mammograms.

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@celestebradham

I’m 61. I finished radiation 6-23 and have just had a breakthrough with fatigue stopping 9-24. I do Yoga, Pranayama and acupuncture and started to add a little strength training. I’m at a “ new” normal. I’m good with that. Doing all my little routine things help me stay physically and mentally well. Do I worry about cancer coming back? I don’t think I worry about it coming back- but I do get anxious at check ups and mammograms.

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Good for you. I think a lot of my issue is my fibromyalgia and menopause symptoms causes alot of fatigue. since having to stop hrt. I have brutal hot flashes at 6 am every morning. Anxiety that hits out of no where. I also had 4 people pass away during my treatment plus had to put my mom in a nursing home. Alot to come to terms with. My best friend was 1 of the people I lost who was fighting stage 4 ovarian cancer.

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@sue417

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Good for you. I think a lot of my issue is my fibromyalgia and menopause symptoms causes alot of fatigue. since having to stop hrt. I have brutal hot flashes at 6 am every morning. Anxiety that hits out of no where. I also had 4 people pass away during my treatment plus had to put my mom in a nursing home. Alot to come to terms with. My best friend was 1 of the people I lost who was fighting stage 4 ovarian cancer.

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That is a lot for anyone to go thru. I had one death and we were building a house. I don’t know if you are able- but something that really helped me was to volunteer. I volunteer at a Hospice thrift store as the cashier once a week. It gets me away from everything and I met wonderful people. ( we have a ranch so there is alway something happening)

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@celestebradham

That is a lot for anyone to go thru. I had one death and we were building a house. I don’t know if you are able- but something that really helped me was to volunteer. I volunteer at a Hospice thrift store as the cashier once a week. It gets me away from everything and I met wonderful people. ( we have a ranch so there is alway something happening)

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I have a compression fracture in my spine due to osteopenia. Happened in 2022 when I rolled over in bed. I can't stand for long periods of time. I was just starting abolunteer job at red cross. That had to stop. I am hoping next yr maybe in the fall to volunteer. It has to be a combo of sitting and standing.

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@jnorki

No preexisting health issues besides high blood pressure. Now I take four meds to counteract the effects of the Letrozole. No kidding.

Hope you get good results. I was stage 1 and caught very early. I still would have made very different choices if I knew more.

My best advice to anyone is to take your time making choices - even though the thought of having cancer growing inside you is beyond frightening - the result in the treatment you choose is critical.

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Did Letrozole raise your blood pressure? I have had high BP for years and it has been controlled well on 3 meds until my cancer recurrance. Lately it has been running much higher and I am trying to foigre out if it is a side effect of the Letrozole, or just acute anxiety (which I have had off and on in my life) over dealing with cancer.

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@gaylepc

Did Letrozole raise your blood pressure? I have had high BP for years and it has been controlled well on 3 meds until my cancer recurrance. Lately it has been running much higher and I am trying to foigre out if it is a side effect of the Letrozole, or just acute anxiety (which I have had off and on in my life) over dealing with cancer.

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I had high blood pressure prior to cancer diagnosis and it did not change much, if at all, throughout treatment and even on Letrozole. I am taking the same meds for blood pressure and no noticeable change.

Good luck - hope your on a path to healing soon.

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