You are fighting a loosing battle. According to the NHTSA, standards for vehicle headlights have been established BUT the auto companies ignore them for the sake of vehicle styling. It is insane that cars are being manufactured with powerful "low beams" like aircraft landing lights.
You don't need that power for driving in parking lots, residential neighborhoods, etc. NHTSA, by not enforcing their headlight standards, have created a very dangerous environment for pedestrians, bike riders & drivers.
Please be "laser focused" when driving.