Double hug!!! You brought a smile to my face this morning reading your post. Boy those smiles feel good. I am starting my day with a smile. I hope you have a great day also!!.

My wife and I sex life went way down many years ago. She deveoped into a diabetic 1 and can't control it. I had a ICD/Pacemaker put in many years ago and really affected being able to be close. They put it in below my chesk muscle. We cannot lay together like we used to. Can't put any weight on the pacemaker without pain. I really miss those days she would lay her head on my chest.

Now she has diabetic sensors on her arms, and devices, needles, tubing, that are connected to her stomach so she can get insulin from an automatic pump. So we try to find other ways to feel close and intimate these days.