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Help - I am burned out and dealing with someone who is stubborn
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Update: I went out and bought 3 high end air filters - one for the bedroom, one for his office, and one for the living room. I have had them all on since Monday afternoon. Waiting to see if it makes any difference as he is still deliberately honking up phlegm and checking the color and texture. Really gotten gross.
He has gotten on my case because I just don't sit in the living room and watch tv with him because I can't enjoy it and he is always honking so it is hard to hear them (I turned on captions, but he doesn't like that). Too bad.
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Maybe he is scared or even depressed that he has serious illness that is why he is constantly checking the color etc. there could be allergy part of it - mold after rain can trigger issues. However most men are like big boys they try to be strong but they aren’t used to having body issues - they’d never cope with monthly bleeding that we women deal with. So try not to react with irritation - also sometimes a playful attitude goes a long way- I sometimes comment “gee the maid service in this hotel is truly subpar”