mdk1960,
WOW‼️everyone has given such great insight and advice. So, you don't need any more from me. I will share that I have to take breaks from any online forums from time to time. We're all here searching for helpful information and I can get overwhelmed by getting as well as giving feedback. On a lighter side: 17 years ago I was blessed to get to be with my daughter and my son-in-law, for a month, when our first grandson was born. My son-in-law is very smart and he knows it. In an evening of conversation religion and sex, he brought up the topics. Oh, yeah, he was in the middle of getting his 2nd Bachelors degree in Theology. The conversation slapped me right in my gut, when he told me "you do know that you are going to hell, right?" I am not kidding. He had been in our lives for 11 years by then. That night
the boundaries got firmly and permanently made... I, as mom and nana, do not need to know about your sex life, you are married, so I am happy you have a sex life. As for church, yes there are many beliefs about religion, this is fine, but we will not discuss religion when we have family time. Boundaries, who knew they could be so hazardous ⚠️ ShelleyW