I am on the forms for my mother and husband as being one info can be shared with. When I have an issue with either that is difficult to bring up to the doctor in their presence I will send in my concern or questions through the doctor’s portal before our visit and ask him to lead questions in that direction. This has proven to be very helpful to me and in the long run to them without them getting upset with me…after all the doctor brought it up, not me.
I hope this helps you with your situation.