Sorry to hear this, Tracy, but I am 84 and had same surgery 2 years ago. My feces now comes out in small, hard round balls (TMI, I know). I was also told to eat more fiber; and to drink 64 ounces of water daily. I find this very helpful and, occasionally, have "normal" bowel movements. I was not a fan of beans but am able to eat them with salad dressing.