@bbams

You're a human being. Of course, with such big plans, this outcome is bound to be disappointing, even with bigger, worse things going on. I think most of us would see ourselves in the context of what was planned vs. what has actually come to pass, and feel some disappointment. As far as helping with house work, I think most of can relate to your frustration. My husband has been a better partner than I ever thought I would find. He has made a real difference in my life. Yet, sometimes the pressure of caring for an adult in failing health, plus keeping up the house, all of the business, all of the errands, laundry, appointments...you name it, seems overwhelming, and we may lose our composure momentarily. Allow yourself your moment, then, do your best to get back on that horse!