If you're talking to the surgeon, don't be shy to ask how many of these surgeries he's done and what his incidence of incontinence and ED have been, especially for cases like yours. I've read that most good surgeons will track their numbers and be willing to share them. I asked these questions as I wanted a surgeon who had a lot of experience with this procedure and a high success rate. This is just more information to help you select the best treatment option for you. Best wishes.