Hi @jstoll1247, welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect. I can understand your wanting to hear from others who have been there, like @debbief whose husband had a heart transplant as well as fellow caregivers @lupedelarosa12 @linda59 @gingerw and @fatherscaregiver

You may also be interested in these discussions in the Transplants group:

- Heart transplant recovery: What to expect? https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/heart-transplant-recovery/
- Preparing for a heart transplant https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/preparing-for-a-heart-transplant/
- Transplant Caregiver Advice: Got Tips to Share? https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/transplant-caregiver-advice-got-tips-to-share/

Jstoll, how long has your husband been on the waiting list? What's your biggest concern at this time?