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Cancer destroying what's left of our marriage and life
Caregivers | Last Active: Dec 13, 2024 | Replies (23)Comment receiving replies
Update. He is no longer living here. He is in psyche hold until "further eval", then off to jail. Two felonies and one misdemeanor. I am filing for divorce Monday.
he tried to kill my dog Monday night. All caught on camera. Then, loaded gun, threats. Swat showed up and took him. He will be in the infirmary. I filed an EPO the next day. Dog recovery in Vet office, Vet gave statement. Could post more but, I am SAFE, the nightmare is over. years upon years of abuse came to an explosive end, and I am safe. My dog is lucky to be alive!
His fate is no longer my concern. The things that have happened over the years cannot be forgiven. What happened this week, cannot forgive. I'm moving on and I have safety measures (lots of them) in place.
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What a horrible experience! He truly knew how to hurt you by attacking your dog. I’m so glad it is over and your pup will recover. Be safe. Hugs to you.
I am do sorry it came to this level of trauma. I will continue to hold you in prayers and encourage you to find in real life support through this chapter.
So sorry to hear that your marriage ended this way. But you did say that his personality wasn't the nicest. You deserve relief from this type of lifestyle. No one should have to put up with this kind of abuse. I realize that your vows are important to you, but not at risk of your own safety. You did the right thing. I would have done the same thing also. My husband has stage iv lung cancer and sometimes he will say hateful and hurting things, but he is not abusive. Not saying that the cancer treatments will never cause him to be abusive. He does apologize afterwards. He has not always been easy to live with. But not to the extent of what you had to put up with. I pray that you and your pup will be safe and enjoy your life without worrying about him.
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@bigmuttlover1 Oh,my, what a terrible ending after all of your hard work! At least, he is no longer your problem. I am so sorry! But you are right in staying away. You need to be safe