@talie Good morning. What an awful decision you’re having to make. Have you checked your states ratings list? They are required to teach all facilities to make sure they meet Medicare standards. Also check Healthgrades—they also follow doctors and facilities. I also suggest talking to the folks at the Area Agency on Aging in your town. Years ago I worked as a nurse in a nursing home. It wasn't perfect but the patients all got great care. I certainly hope you find something and feel ok with what you find.