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Caregivers | Last Active: Nov 12, 2023 | Replies (707)Comment receiving replies
I’m looking for a memory care facility using lots of different resources—digital and company services. I have talked to so many people in the “business”and read so many conflicting reviews that I feel like I’m going crazy. It took me a while to realize that for many this is a “sales” job where people get paid if they place someone in a facility they have a contract with. Also the facilities stay in business when they can convince someone to place their loved with them, so what can you really believe??? I I’ve also realized some of the “comments” online can be from people with “an axe to grind”, so again what do you believe. I can’t place my husband of almost 50 years anywhere I don’t feel 100% confident about. Any help you can give me will be hugely appreciated!! Desperately, Talie
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Hi @talie When I looked into this in our local area I first went to our local hospice organizations and had conversations with the staff there. In our case I found they had no axe to grind, no financial interest in one place over another, and they really had a solid 'inside scoop' if you will since they were friends, colleagues, or past colleagues of many of the staff at the places.
Wishing you strength, courage, and peace!
@talie I’m just following up to see how you’ve been doing. What do you think of the places that you’ve been looking at? Have you found anywhere that you are at least 90% confident about? I’m thinking of both you and your husband. Becky
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@talie Good morning. What an awful decision you’re having to make. Have you checked your states ratings list? They are required to teach all facilities to make sure they meet Medicare standards. Also check Healthgrades—they also follow doctors and facilities. I also suggest talking to the folks at the Area Agency on Aging in your town. Years ago I worked as a nurse in a nursing home. It wasn't perfect but the patients all got great care. I certainly hope you find something and feel ok with what you find.