Hi @pattyinal - It sounds as if you have been dealing with this for a long time. My heart goes out to you. Just wanted to pass along something I learned recently that may or may not help. Our local hospice will provide help with anyone diagnosed with dementia - it does not mean they are at the end of life. They do it because dementia is progressive - and their services are free. Also, our local Council on Aging (COA) has been a tremendous resource for me in terms of caregiver support. Do you have hospice and/or COA in your area?