@margui70, I'm a liver and kidney recipient (2009 Mayo Rochester). I can understand the stress that you are experiencing.

Along with packing personal items, there are some things that need to be done at home in preparation for the call (i.e. pay bills, arrange for someone to mow grass, shovel snow, etc). While you are waiting, I want to share the following discussion where members have shared their helpful tips.

- Waiting for the Call: What needs to get done at home before you go?
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/waiting-for-the-call-what-needs-to-get-done-at-home-before-you-go/