@marywc Oh, that must have been devastating news to hear!

You ask what you should bring to the melanoma oncologist now. Finding out what stage this melanoma is, is very important. Ask about the possible treatment options and what his/her opinion is as to what will be advisable in your daughter's case. Remember that each patient is different, and what you hear from someone else may not fit her unique situation.

Assemble a team. Social worker to assist with the mental aspect of all this. Her primary care, to be kept in the loop. The oncologist. Any other doctors your daughter sees, so everyone is kept in the loop. Your daughter, of course, as she is the center of all this. Take a deep breath and be there for her and yourself.

Gentle hugs,
Ginger