My Bone Marrow Transplant (BMT/SCT) story: Will you share yours?

Hi Marylou! So many of us know that feeling of being excited and scared at the same time while waiting for that stem cell transplant. I found actually having a confirmed date helped me switch mindsets from having a little fear of the unknown to finally being able to plan for the event. I’m betting it will help you too.

Sounds like you are all set with lodging. It helps to have that ‘home base’. My transplant was also as an outpatient. It was nice to be out of a hospital setting right away and into our home away from home. My husband would have small meals ready for me in the fridge so I could get up and grab food whenever I felt like eating. I took walks, naps, watched tv, did a little writing, reading, watercolors. It felt less like being a patient when I wasn’t confined to a hospital room all the time. There were daily returns to the clinic though for blood draws and infusions so I never felt apprehensive about not being admitted.

Here are some of my favorite links. They cover most everything. But each person has their own ideas of what to bring as well. Remember that this is your home away from home so if there are little things that you routinely have at home you’ll want them with you in the hotel suite.

This link to Mayo Clinic’s Caregiver guide is fairly comprehensive as to the needs of the patient for safety with food, living conditions and guidelines for getting through some of the earlier challenges.
Dana Farber will have their own protocol to follow but these are basic general guidelines that will be similar.

When you click on the link, check the headings and the menu listings. You’ll see:
Welcome. Caregiver support, Transplant Journey and More
Also, make sure when you look to the “Transplant Journey” that you scroll down to Allogenic Transplant segment.
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/blog/caregivers-for-bmt-car-t-and-hematology/tab/support/#ch-tab-navigation
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Another great guide for the Post Allogenic patient care is from Memorial Sloan Kettering. https://www.mskcc.org/pdf/cancer-care/patient-education/leaving-hospital-after-your-allogeneic-transplant

This link has some repetitive information but it also has detailed lists of what to pack for long term. I posted this a couple months ago to a newer member who just went through her Allo transplant, @katgob. She’s doing fantastic and just passed her critical 100 day point!
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/comment/1059221/
Let me know if there’s anything else I can do for you!

Thank you katgob. We are in Rochester now rented a studio apartment. Pretransplant process starts tomorrow.
We are in a good place literally and metaphorically. Strong together with many friends and family pulling hard for us from home.
Your story continues to give us hope as we move forward.

dwolder,
Thank you for letting us know. Having you there with your husband will let you keep notes or ask the list of questions you have thought of. It has been said but worth saying again to do this a day at a time, and soon enough the time will go by fast. Maybe longer for you but assisting your hubby and maybe taking short walks will help.
Your beautiful attitude and spirit will help too.

Thinking of you and your husband this week as he starts all of his testing! Daunting schedule isn’t it? But you’ll be amazed at how smoothly it all goes. I hope all goes well so he can finally get on with this transplant! Sending an air hug!

Thanks Lori. We are so impressed with the amazing work now that we are here in Rochester for care. Everything is so well planned.
We feel that David’s care is in the best hands and now are reassured that this team will help us every step of the way.
Rochester itself is beautiful and our apartment is a perfect home away from home. Getting used to apartment living after years in our house in the woods is an adjustment, but we are grateful to be in a very nice place close to the clinic/hospital.

Hi all,
Today i hit my 115th day post-transplant day. Below are two lines from two test results from my last BMB.
-Bone marrow aspirate: No abnormal myeloid blast population is identified.
-No abnormal myeloid blast or monocytic population identified
I like to say never just read them. Wait till you see the doctor. Today for my once-a-week visit, I asked the RN if she had more results from my test! I told her about my flea bites and my work to kill them, but what lotion best to use with my meds in mind. She was reviewing all my blood numbers which are mostly steady. Platelets up to 266. Red still a bit down but they have been stable there for months. The team is not worried. The doctor popped in and i asked him about my results!!!! I stopped tacro last week, so when my creatinine number was 106 the doctor said today is your baseline. Hydrate. The nurse already set me up to get hydration. If my flea bites turn into a rash all over, he said call me. That would be GVHD.
The two of them looked and said based on 2 components, one says it is 100% donor. The 2nd is 98%. She said over 90 is good for the 2nd so 98% is great. The Doctor is super pleased. Not with my hydration and my kidneys, but with how my body is doing. For today, the new 26-year-old fellow has taken over my body!!!!!!
My visits now go to every 2 weeks for a blood test and follow up.
I also got a call on the way there if i would like to have my MO appointment today instead of the 6th of May! She is very young. My MO i had through my treatment is at a different hospital. I am staying with her for now, as i complete my one -year post transplant!! I did get a dermatology appointment Nov 27th, with a possible cancelation if I stay on that list. My family has had melanoma and squamous. I cannot not go. I have to have a consult again as it has been 2.5 years. Advocate!!!

Hey @katgob! Can you believe it’s day 115 already?? When you’re at Day 0, anything past 100 seems like it’s forever away. You’re doing great!! Loving those two lines from your last BMB. 😉 I think you and that ‘26 year old bone marrow’ are making a great team!

Oh my gosh, flea bites? They itch like the dickens. If I haven’t mentioned already, our dog had picked up fleas one summer from bunnies in the backyard! I was aghast!! We’d had dogs for years and never, ever had a flea.
Fleas are incredibly difficult to get rid of because they lay eggs in carpeting and furniture. We finally got rid of them by using Food-Grade Diatomaceous Earth. It’s a fine powder that you can sprinkling on carpets, use a broom to sweep into the carpet and then let it sit for a while then vacuumed thoroughly. It’s not toxic! But it destroys eggs and kills fleas. Because you’re so new yet into the transplant, should wear a mask when using it. Here’s a little blurb about diatomaceous earth.
https://www.thebugsquad.com/fleas/diatomaceous-earth-fleas/
As for your hydration…not sure if it will help you or not but I found that drinking room temperature water helped me get down my required 64+ ounces a day with no effort. Room temp is also utilized better in the body. Just a thought…

I have to ask, what is a MO treatment? I’m not familiar with that term.

Thank you Lori.
I was told about that Food-Grade Diatomaceous Earth and i have it in my amazon account to buy!! Today. I am amazed how many there were, and my sister thought she got them all. I have done so much. Salt/Baking soda and upstairs in 1 room nontoxic flea powder. The population exploded and i have not had any fleas in the house for 30 years.
As for water, I am drinking it room temp as you suggested. Yesterday, I did not start the day with a bottle. I started cleaning and did some errands, then got called into the doctors 2hours early. This week i will focus on consistency. A bottle at the start of the day and throughout the day. That is what has worked. It shows if I slack a day or two. Since I am going every 2 weeks, I can focus.
My MO, oops, Medical Oncologist. I see her from my previous cancer. I just saw her once before my BMT and she had suggested watch and wait. What? I asked her to connect with my hematologist as the Zometa she wanted me to take would not be the best. Yesterday, she deferred to the hematologist for when things like my colonoscopy need scheduling.
It is odd but starting to feel wonderful to be back to daily living. Summer house cleaning beginning with fleas is my deal. Neither me or my remaining cat wants those fleas.
Day 116 has begun!!! My donor and I will enjoy our day!

Eleven more days until my husband goes back in the hospital to start his countdown. Day 0 will be August 21. Getting nervous. I was okay until the transplant coordinator gave us the chemo schedule and started talking about preventing seizures from one of the drugs. She said, "don't be alarmed when you see padded rails on the bed." Then she informs us that I can't be in the room when he gets the stem cells. I will have to wait down the hall. This added to my concerns. Do they expect something bad to happen? I know this are just precautions and we have a really good team. However, recently they scheduled an appointment to put my husband on chemo pills for maintenance until his transplant. This was on a Friday. He started the pills on Saturday and spent Saturday night and Sunday throwing up. Then we get a message on Monday, saying STOP taking the meds. The doctor didn't realize his transplant was so soon and he needs to be off the meds for two weeks prior to chemo. This did not reassure me. Didn't he check his chart before issuing instructions concerning medication? So, I am getting stressed trying to coordinate everything for the 100 days post-transplant since my husband can't go home. We have no family here to help. The help I thought I might have didn't work out. So, I am working on hiring people. Boy, is that expensive. We have animals that need tended to. I have a job I have to keep so we have insurance. I know everything will work out. These are just a few of the stresses that are going through my brain right now. Thanks for letting me just vent. I know all this is a normal part of leukemia and SCT care but this is all new to me.

caregiverx. I want to say to just have a rest. Deep breathes. I would have expected the doctor to know. COH where I was treated had a transplant team. Do you have a team? In the hospital an RN is assigned to each patient. They have more than one patient but visit for meds and checks many times during their 12hours.
Have you received the list of chemo drugs he will get? Precautions. They do not know how his body will react. I know when i had chemo for breast cancer, the fewer in the room is best. The RN wore a special paper gown. Chemo is toxic. For my transplant cells, the head nurse asked if i wanted a picture with me and the cells. Not till right now do i realize the bag literally has changed my life.
I do not know the donor, a 26 yr old from Europe. I got to write a generic letter to thank him for his gift.
The hospital may have rules on who is in the room for the transplant. I feel it will always be about the safety of the product and the patient.
I understand about the caregiver. I did not have one confirmed till 1 week before. I stayed at her house until day 100. Day 24-100. I had no family members who were able to help, no spouse or children.
Take it one issue at a time. Pets. Do they need daily care? I know i looked up the caregiver cost in California and it was 96,000.00 for the 76 days out of the hospital for 24 hours.
I did not have all the dreaded side effects, so I am grateful my friend stepped up. My caregiver helped with a drip med i had infused at home for 60 days, until i saw an extender piece on utube where i could do it myself.
I understand needing to work. I used all me medical hours, got 30 hours at half pay and was docked 1.5 days. Wow. It was a lot of money taken out of my July paycheck. I had planned to work one month before i did, remotely, but the HR director at the college did not respond timely. It took defining the letter the Dr sent nearly when i was released from the hospital for a month for the director to final ok me to work from home. One month late. We are still working on that. I have plenty of work to do, and so far after 1.5 months i have a good pattern. Ready to work with my difficult supervisor to finely define what i do.

This has been one of my biggest stressors. My BMT after the hospital was in the beginning about foods to eat, drinking a lot of water every day and starting exercise.

Above all else, use a checklist and keep a journal. All your questions, fears and triumphs!! You will be amazed when you go back and read it. Living it takes, faith love for your spouse and courage to be the best you that you can be.