Hi! @healedme:

I am so sorry for all you've been through!

Unfortunately, I do not have any experience regarding oncoplastic surgery and I am not any expert in the healthcare profession that I can not offer any advice on this matter; however, I'll keep you and your young son in my thoughts and prayers, pray that everything goes well with the grace of God! Please consider accepting help from family and friends, @healedme; I truly believe that the gracious Lord shows His love via people around us all. I live in Connecticut, if we live within driving distance, I'd love to offer any physical assistance that you may need. Could you please let me know where you live?

Our praying spirits will be with you through this journey, my friend. Wishing you a successful surgery and full & speedy recovery!