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@violasummertime

Hi there,

Thanks for sharing all of this! I did know that some women don’t have many symptoms (like you and an aunt of mine), but I also know of many who’ve had hot flashes.

One struggle is that I have distant knowledge concerning those women (former coworkers, mainly), and I’ve so few women with whom to talk about this. However, a number of my peers are starting to experience symptoms.

I’m so happy for you that you’ve had no sexual trouble—little sounds worse to me than the prospect of vaginal atrophy LOL. That word is heinous! Gosh!!!

I need to learn more about HRT, and I’m grateful to learn from you about its helpfulness after menopause. But how do you know when menopause is over?? Please pardon my ignorance.

Thanks again.

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I’m not sure when it’s over. I read that people have continued symptoms for many years. They are miserable with so many symptoms. I don’t get it. How does that happen? Maybe, I’ll learn more when I find my doctor who’ll treat me with HRT. Until then, I’m continuing with the Estradiol.

So far, I haven’t needed any vaginal moisturizer, but I have it on hand just in case. The estradiol gives the pelvic area a little rejuvenation. I keep personal lubricant on hand too, but I haven’t used it for sex.

I shared my concerns with my boyfriend. (We had dated many years ago and rekindled the relationship a few months ago.) He was so understanding and it worked out great. So…..I’m not sure if my hormones are just not low enough yet, but it’s been years since my last period. I no longer ovulate either, so.,….it’s a mystery. My libido is as vibrant as ever. So, you can see why I don’t want to lose it.

Please post your findings. I will too.