Agreed! It is scary sometimes. And we are pretty much on the same page with what we do. My hardest time is with a close family member who lives far away and visits for a few weeks at a time. That person doesn’t get it and is on my case because I do everything and husband does very little. Why don’t I have hubby do more? Why can’t he? Hopefully next visit I will be able to explain better what’s going on.
I firmly believe in getting a counselor who doesn’t know the family. It helps. And I have learned a few things about myself along the way!