Dearest ladies, (and gentlemen), wherever you are on this journey, stop and give yourself an inner hug as you are a wonderful person who has the strength of Vikings conquering the world! When I look at the mounds of untackled tasks that now surround me I remind myself of my mother’s words saying that dust will wait but a baby won’t be a baby for long so hold your baby before you bother with housework. I must remind myself that this man I love more than I can express is only here for a short time longer and I must take a deep breathe then love him NOW. God Bless you all and be kind to yourselves, spend your last dime on help, and know that you are loved!