MCTD (Mixed Connective Tissue Disease)
Ok, here goes my story....4 Weeks ago I was diagnosed with Mixed Connective Tissue disease...I am normally a busy busy person, I work full time as a police officer, volunteer at my church, work a lot of off duty, and I have Three Boxer Dogs that I show, and I'm married...so I have a lot going on and this has pretty much put a stop on everything...I'm on 30mg of Prednisone, Plaquenil, Imuran, and Amitriptiline (for depression, anxiety), and Nexium twice a day...Some days I'm fine and other days I can't get out of bed either because I'm so tired or I'm having a flare. I would just like to talk to other people who have this disease and who can relate to me. I feel like I'm losing my mind and body for that matter.....Is it always going to be like this? How do I slow myself down? The concept just seems so alien to me....HELP
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I am so thankful to find this group and appreciate all of the sories, it is helping to read about these challenges we are facing.
I am a 52 yr old woman, healthy lifestyle and eating and after years and years of seeing doctors who diagnosed me with Ankylosing Spondilosis, Arthritis, tendonitis, carpel tunnel, COPD (and I dont smoke), cronic migrains, optical migrains, Hashimotos and Celiac disease, I finnaly was referred to a great rhumatologist who gave me the appropriate tests. She said I have MCTD, Lupus, RA and of course Celiac and Hashimotos, this all makes sense now after being so sick for yrs, I also have cronic GI issues. I was often passed off because of my athleticism and my career as a welder/sculptor.
I have always been a super athletic outdoors person and a proffesional sculptor and gardner. The worst most depressing thing is, I am at the height of my career as a public artist with many great projects under my belt and I feel as if I am at my peak of creativity with so many opportunities coming my way but I find the work of welding so debilitating, I can only work maybe 2 hrs every other day lest I have a major flare-up. Im super depressed that I will have to give up the work I have dedicated my life to, even now I am struggling to complete a project for a beautiful Library.
The other part is Family, My husband, the love of my life has finally gone into remission from metastatic prostate cancer and melanoma, so now he has to see me this way in pain and suffering all the time, not being the happy vivacous me. I lost both parents last year and sadly My mother had a similar autoimmune disease, on a feeding tube for 4 years and finnaly passed due to complications at 78. I am absolutly terrified Im going down that same path. I feel as if Iʻm in a vortex and I canʻt really talk to my husband as he will get too depressed and my stepsons are doing their own things and busy with their life.
I find myself just going and laying down in bed at like 6pm...I feel exausted in pain all the time, I have always been the caregiver and now I struggle to be that person, I feel trapped by this disease.
My husband was cured by an experimental medication during a trial at UCLA, I am hoping there is more research into this condition and will be on the lookout for study trials.
@jessiek Welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect. I am so sorry for your diagnosis and your families’ difficulty with the diagnosis. I, too, was shocked when I got an autoimmune diagnosis and how it meant an end to so many things in my life. My sisters and my husband are the only ones who understand. (My sisters have autoimmune disorders of their own,). I know you will find encouragement and support here.
How long ago were you diagnosed with MCTD ? I can only imagine how hard it must be for you to take ‘time out’ from your work as a welder/sculptor. I purposely wrote ‘time out’ because you can and will get back to it in some form. I was so depressed when I couldn’t quilt anymore. And I had been an excellent quilter. I have slowly worked at getting back into quilting because it means so much to me and I know it will help my mood.
Do you have good doctors that you trust? Make sure your main doctor knows all that is going on with you. She can probably recommend a good therapist for you (an excellent idea). And make sure your primary doctor knows how much pain you are having. You need to be working with these diseases, not trying to manage pain.
What do you think is an important thing you can do for yourself this week?
Becky,
Thank you so much for the reply and encouragement !! I was just diagnosed a week ago but have been suffering with all over severe arthritis pain, headaches and breathing problems for years, along with severe numbness in both hands and arms. its the GI symptoms, along with chest pain and nausea, dizziness that really started to scare me about a year ago. I have had celiac since very young.
You are fortunate to have family that is so supportive, I hope your sisters find good treatments for their autoimmune disorders.
Im glad to hear you are back to your quilting, my grandma used to quilt and I loved it as a child.
For now I have been trying to figure out a manageable work load, I did 3 hrs of welding today, 2 hours of gardening and 2 hours of house work and now I am exhausted so will hit the sack early again. But I have to make a decision on on a big public art commission opportunity, I would never want to pass up a job but I am scared how I will be doing in 8 months when I have to start building it. I will talk to my doctors about it, and on that note, my primary is just O.K. she had to google several of the blood tests I had done at my RA and the new Rhumatologist is so busy, I am luck to get a note to her let alone a response.
This week I am going to try to get back into my Qigong practice, I do a 25 min routine on the computer, it really helps with the nerves and tendons.
@jessiek Have you ever heard of The Spoon Theory? Many people follow the suggestions given in the article. It’s all about managing your energy so you’re not too tired all the time. I usually do several tasks and lie down for a 15 minute break. That’s usually all it takes (I tell myself).
https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/how-do-you-plan-your-day-and-conserve-energy-are-you-a-spoonie/
You did 7 hours of work today which is too much! Maybe you could hire a housekeeper to help!
After reading the Spoon Theory and what other members say, what do you think you could do to lessen or pace your day better?
Thank you Becky
Yeah im wiped out today, i will check out the spoon theory for sure. I hope you have a happy day:)
I did an exclusion diet called Auto Immune Protocol diet for 60 days. Then I tried adding a new food, one per week, to see if any increased inflammation and my CTD symptoms. Sugar is my main problem, causing next day symptoms of fatigue, leg cramps, buzzy numbness in feet and hands. I am also somewhat sensitive to rice, wheat, dairy and eggs, but sugar is the worst.
I would definitely find another neurosurgeon to go over your scans, xrays, before and after your surgery.
What kind of Dr stated you had a connective tissue disorder?
I see that also someone noted that they had some issues and have Ehlers Danlos. I would recommend looking into that. You may have had some instability. If it is severe a neurosurgeon will do a depression and fusion, but with instability, usually you need a neurosurgeon who is familiar with it.
I am so sorry you are dealing with all of this. I hope you can find the answers you are looking for.
@jessiek haven’t heard from you in awhile. Are you doing OK? I know the fatigue is awful, but you’ll need to learn to live with it. Terrible thing to say to you, but I’m just being honest. Try to do something nice for yourself every day! What is something nice you could do for yourself?
Wow! Thanks for reaching out Becky, I have been up and down.Fatigue all the time. just attempting to figure out the meds and side effects, constant pain.. I am in earnest with completing my latest public art project and getting it installed, I hope i don’t get dizzy and pass out on the lift installing it. I did a nice thing for myself and have booked a trip in September with my husband to Costa Rica because I worry I wont have many years left where I can board a plane and deal with travel, I have never traveled much, I would love to see a monkey and a sloth in person . I am super thankful to have such a supportive husband to take me on this trip.
I was also diagnosed around 4 weeks ago. I have been struggling with pain and many issues for years am super active healthy lifestyle and married with pets and 2 adult kids. I feel your anxiety and empathize completely.. some days ard O.K. Others downright horrible, flares are the worst. At least we know what we have and can figure out treatments… it must be so hard for you with your job and family too , sending you good thoughts and hoping your meds alleviate your flares