im in a relationship that is experiencing the lack of. we dont talk much, our sleeping habbits are opposite to avoid anything, and im feeling overwhelmed and just decided to cut out the glam and embrace the normal or bland look knowing that i tried even though there may not be any more days like our beginning. going back into my shell. that we dont communicate like we should, and him being just about him and his illnesses, there is no room for me to have a complaint. so i just stay quiet and suffer, and this is not even my husband. 5year relationship. the beginning started off well, and into the 3 year change came about. now estimated 5 times a year and decreasing. theres only so much you can do when your illnesses are demanding. but what i wish i could do over is communicate when the issue begun in the beginning with us and i wouldnt be sittin here now with no answers, and no one to talk to.