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But then if I go back to when she was in high school and jr. high she wasn't much better. She was always secretive.

I know the one thing she really got angry with me about was her "relationship" with her music teacher. It cumulated one school nite when there was play rehearsal.

She informed me that due to play rehearsal she would be home late. Okay. Well 9p.m., 10 p.m, go by no daughter. About 10:30 I start calling her friends, they are all home. Her bestie tells me when she left at 9 p.m. my daughter was still there with teacher.

So I go and drive to school. I can see cars around but I can't get in. It is about 11:30+ at this point and I am really worried. Go back home and call the police dept. and explains situation and my concern about not knowing where daughter is. Officer tells me he can reach custodian and see if any one is there and will call me back.

Officer calls back, Yep, she is there with teacher and will be calling me shortly to pick her up. Well, that didn't happen because the police dropped her off and watched her come into the house. Boy, was she livid.

Next day she comes home from school and starts screaming at me that Music teach told her I got him in trouble! I told her I didn't get him in trouble, he had no business with her at that time of night etc. I didn't tell her that I had also called the school about the situation and they told me they had also gotten a report from the police dept. and the custodian.

She also went off the deep end at me when the Teach informed her a month or so later that his contract at the school had not been renewed. That, according to her, was my fault.

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One addition her that should give a lot of insight. Even though the officer called the school custodian, they sent a police unit out there and physically brought her home. No one ever said anything happened, but then it seems strange they would send someone out if, well, you get the idea. A teacher taking advantage of a student with a crush on him. That, IMHO, is why the school did not renew his contract.