Vent away! For myself it is the best way to work it down to something more manageable. I know way more about families and cancer than any one person has a right to know.
The realistic answer is we don’t have all the answers. There are more answers all the time but we may never know all the answers about why families are wiped out by cancer (“we” meaning the human race).
My genetic testing consisted of BRCA 1 and 2, and then years later they tested for a few more that they learned about, and found out I have hits from both sides of my family. I am imagining 20 years from now there will be even more answers.
Your daughters have some hard times coming their way, but hopefully that buys them some pretty great time too.
How are you?💕❤️💕