Member Neuropathy Journey Stories: What's Yours?

Posted by John, Volunteer Mentor @johnbishop, May 12, 2020

This discussion was created as a place for members to share their journey with neuropathy. This will allow members to easily learn from each other what has helped them and hopefully help new members avoid some of the painful and difficult struggles some of us have faced. The following is a suggested outline for sharing your story that would be helpful for other members for comparison to their own neuropathy story.

— When did your neuropathy start? What were the symptoms? When and how was it diagnosed?
— What treatments or medications have you tried?
— What side effects have you had, if any?

Optional:
— What would you tell your best friend if they told you they had neuropathy?
— What activities have you had to give up because of neuropathy? What do you instead?
— How has your life changed socially? at work? at home?

What's your neuropathy story?

Note: If you want to ask a question for another member who has posted their neuropathy story here in this discussion, be sure to add their @membername in your post, for example @johnbishop. Your question may already be discussed in other neuropathy discussions. Be sure to check here first: https://connect.mayoclinic.org/group/neuropathy/ That way this discussion can be reserved for member neuropathy stories and hopefully make it easier to read and find similar symptoms to your own.

Interested in more discussions like this? Go to the Neuropathy Support Group.

Why? —- I have a “damage of nerve” that started 2 years ago by falling down on my garage on my rear ends. 😕

What? —- That pain hit from my rear ends to the bottom under my feet. No more cutting the grass; no more walking outside; kills my balance; no more fixing the outside or inside house; and on…😟

Treatment use? —- I tried pills to get rid of pain in my body. I have a TBI accident 12 years ago, but I didn’t want or need my pain-meds UNTIL falling down in my garage. During that, I took these pain-meds in my low body. Well, that shorts helped my (feels like 50% on my body), but still no more cutting our grass… and the rest of my problems. Well, shortly, that meds didn’t fit. The pain - 100% of it - was killing me, BUT by sitting down is great… the pain ends. Who do you stand-up? I need that fit a lot of our needs: going to a bathroom; helping my wife for foods & others; going to other doctors; going to the drug store; buying our different stores - like COSTCO; and on…😠

What side effects? —- pain from my 2 rear ends to the bottom of my feet.. some of the pain moves little or no feeling on my right side from foot; my right-side if my leg goes thru little feeling of my foot and adds other less-usage on the weakness that could fall down. It’s a funny way, my right-side was stronger by lifting (before my TBI).🧐

>>>GOOD<

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Shoot… I lost the writing the GOOD options, shoot. Well here it is, a short tiny thing:

❤️GOOD❤️ options —- 3 weeks ago, Doctor A, it took 4-5 hours inside my back, close to my tight-side rear end. He put this, yes, this nerve moved between two sides and hit both of them. He moved it and the pain is gone. Ok, I’ve got the other “problems” including my unbalance at could or was falling down on my front of backwards, That hits my brain area. ❤️ No More Pain!!! ❤️ Well, my exercising from my read-ends to the bottom for my bottom legs is my need daily!

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@artscaping

Good afternoon. This discussion is an effort to give everyone an opportunity to share their neuropathy journey....all in the same discussion. How helpful will that be......you can then use the search field by topic or treatment. As your journey continues, it will be great to keep up with each other and add to our neuropathy knowledge bank.

So....here we go. My favorite saying when I learn about something on Connect, "if only I had known" or "if only I had done some research", or "if only I had begun posting earlier"

The scene:......................patio breakfast and a few games of cribbage with my e-harmony friend, now life partner, about 7 years ago. We set up the board and he handed the cards to me to shuffle. When I tried and they scattered everywhere, he asked: "What's the matter with your hands?" That was my neuropathy coming out party.

Next steps: ....................I revealed my situation to my two nurse friends. One offered me essential oils, the other medical cannabis. I chose cannabis because I knew my pain level was too high for well-intentioned essential oil products. To this day I manage my pain with a few CBD: THC products…..tinctures and topicals in different ratios. I was beginning to have high-level pain in my arms, wrists, and hands, electric shocks in my head, and burning pain down my legs as well as inside my abdomen. Good thing I had a coach. I would have been overwhelmed with all of the experimentation and evaluation required at that time to find the best medical cannabis products.

In the meantime:............My orthopedic surgeon was consulted because at the time I had fallen down the stairs and needed a rotator cuff repair on the left side. He had previously done the reverse shoulder on the right side and I thought possibly it was "in trouble". He immediately took X-rays and went with me to his "buddy" who does spine work. They collaborated, put a hold on the rotator cuff, and did the cervical fusions first, rotator cuff second. I didn't even know enough to tell the difference between thoracic and cervical. I did remember lumbar.

Enter the neurologist:.....Only after the cervical surgery had healed and fused, did I learn that the pain, tingles, and needles, were still there which led to more tests and finally a punch skin biopsy to confirm that I had small fiber peripheral neuropathy (SFPN). It was not a bad shoulder surgery and I wore that darn brace for 3 months so there would be no claim of bad neck surgery. I also learned that my idea of slow learner had no comparison to bruised nerves that need to heal to be helpful.

Bump in the road:.......... I had to get off of an anti-depressant that really helped my early-onset EOL ideation because of digestive side effects that were just too much to overcome. I substituted one more dropper of cannabis in the evening. Not as good as the anti-depressant until I adjusted some dosages.

The future:..................... learn everything I can. Alter what I can, accept what I can't.
Knowledge is Power. Share your neuropathy journey to help others on Connect.

What would I tell my best friend if she was diagnosed with SFN?
Join Mayo Connect..... participate, contribute, question or just use it for research........then you won't be saying, "if I had only known."

May you be safe and protected.
Chris

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Hi and like your learn, alter and then accept. Not loving it but so true.

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I have so much pain and bad back and wonder if others deal with it. When you reach out to others you are a cry baby. This is major pain. Scary

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@johnbishop

I started my journey with neuropathy when I was in my early 50s, with some numbness that started in my toes on both feet. I mostly ignored it because there was no pain and I really didn’t think much about it. After a few years, the numbness progressed to the bottoms of both feet and I mentioned it to my primary care doctor who said it could be nerve damage. He said they could run some tests and determine if it was nerve damage. I asked if they determine if it is nerve damage what can be done. I was surprised when he mentioned there was not any treatment that will help with numbness.

The numbness gradually increased over the years and in my early 70s the numbness had progressed to just below my knees. It was at this point that I was worried about my mobility and what the future would hold so I talked with my primary care doctor who helped me get an appointment with a neurologist. The neurologist scheduled some lab tests including an MRI, nerve conduction test and a physical exam. I was diagnosed with idiopathic small fiber peripheral neuropathy but unlike most people diagnosed with neuropathy I only had the numbness and no associated pain. I was disappointed that there was no treatment available even though I had a diagnosis but that is pretty much what my first doctor had told me 20 years ago.

After I received my diagnosis of small fiber PN I was trying every topical cream available that said it would help neuropathy with zero results. Then I found a book by Dr. Terry Wahls, The Wahls Protocol. She shared how using functional medicine and nutrient rich foods helped her treat her symptoms of multiple sclerosis and get her life back. This started my journey on looking at nutrition as a possible treatment for my neuropathy.

I learned there are a bunch of companies and folks with neuropathy treatments looking to take your money and it is up to you to do your own research and avoid scams. Fortunately, there is a lot of information on how to avoid scams but it is out of sight, out of mind for a lot of folks. Here are the ones I have used:

Quazar's wonderful guidance about avoiding scams and snake oil cures:
-- https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/how-to-avoid-quacks-and-snake-oil-treatments/

FDA's Health Fraud Page:
-- https://www.fda.gov/forconsumers/consumerupdates/ucm278980.htm

NIH's National Center for Complementary and Integrative Health (NCCIH) which offers guidance about integrative health and how to evaluate it:
-- https://nccih.nih.gov/health/decisions

That said, I have found a protocol of supplements developed by fellow neuropathy patients that works for me and has helped others with PN get off the pain medications. I was skeptical at first and took the list of supplements and vitamins to my doctor who shared it with the Mayo pharmacist to get his feedback on any interactions. His only comment was he thought the omega 3s in the list was high.

You can read more about it in this discussion:

Have you tried the new Protocol 525 product for neuropathy relief? https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/have-you-tried-the-new-protocol-525-product-for-neuropathy-relief/

I started taking the supplements/vitamins September 2016 and by December the numbness in both legs went from just below the knees to just above the ankles. I have not made any more progress, but I am OK with it since I feel it has stopped the progression. My neurologist had told me to just watch it and let him know when it gets worse – in other words there is nothing I can do to fix it. Recently I have seen some feeling return to my feet at different times during the day which gives me some hope of more progress and a new normal.

I’ve been a member of Mayo Clinic Connect since 2016. And it gives me great comfort to talk with others, share ideas and information, not only here in the Neuropathy group, but also in other groups as new health questions come up, like managing PMR, getting a knee replacement, a CPAP, etc. Ahh, the joys of aging. Hey, if you qualify ;-), you might also want to join me in this group on Connect: Aging Well. (See all 70+ Groups on Mayo Clinic Connect here: https://connect.mayoclinic.org/groups/)

What’s your neuropathy story?

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My neurologist could determine what type of np I have and could only offer gabapentine which I have learned makes things worse. I found doc t ors who use red light therapy, a tens device that works with my feet in water, an ultrasound device, and a shock treatment with hot and cold water, fruit powder supplement and another with b complex. Feel like I am walking on pillows but it is not progressing over 10 months. I'm 78 and active. Thanks for your comments. Lou

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@grampalou

My neurologist could determine what type of np I have and could only offer gabapentine which I have learned makes things worse. I found doc t ors who use red light therapy, a tens device that works with my feet in water, an ultrasound device, and a shock treatment with hot and cold water, fruit powder supplement and another with b complex. Feel like I am walking on pillows but it is not progressing over 10 months. I'm 78 and active. Thanks for your comments. Lou

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My neurologist did many tests and found B6 level too high which is toxic to nerves. So I don't take it. I can take up to a year or longer for my body to get rid of it.
She also started me on Nortripyline and after 4 weeks most of my pain is gone. Now I occasionally have pain in my toes which is a major improvement.

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Lyrics has damaged my kidneys so my doctor is reducing my dose to 150 mg. Per day. I'm down to 175 mg. and the burning pain has gotten terrible. She says that she doesn't know what to do. Her only thing was to tell me to buy lidocaine which really doesn't help much. I had a stroke which caused thalamic pain. It is similar to neuropathy but still not the same but probably treated the same. Does anyone know what might help me. Thanks in advance.

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@onfire

Lyrics has damaged my kidneys so my doctor is reducing my dose to 150 mg. Per day. I'm down to 175 mg. and the burning pain has gotten terrible. She says that she doesn't know what to do. Her only thing was to tell me to buy lidocaine which really doesn't help much. I had a stroke which caused thalamic pain. It is similar to neuropathy but still not the same but probably treated the same. Does anyone know what might help me. Thanks in advance.

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Welcome @onfire, I'm so sorry to hear you you are having difficulty dealing with the pain. There is another discussion you might find helpful since you mentioned thalamic pain.
-- How to manage thalamic pain syndrome?: https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/how-to-manage-thalamic-pain-syndrome/

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@rwinney

It has been a 4 year journey filled with troubleshooting and misfires before landing on my new normal of Small Fiber Polyneuropathy. I joined Mayo Connect 1year ago because I was lost and needed support of others who understand my doubts, fears and were experiencing similar diagnosis.

My downfall began August of 2016 (age 46). I had unusual neck and head pain from painting. My PCP sent me to physical therapy, no relief after 1 month. On to acupuncture for 2 months, nothing. Xrays were of no value. Jan 2017 my MRI revealed 1 moderate cervical herniated disc and 2 bulging discs. Ah hah, the answer! Wrong. 2 spine surgeons agreed surgery was not the answer and sent me to Pain Management. I was diagnosed with occipital neuralgia and cervical spondylosis. I worked with 2 different Drs because the first PM Dr. could only provide help to my neck while my head needed help too. This resulted in a total of 4 cervical and occipital nerve blocks as diagnostic tests (these are preliminary to Radio Frequency Ablations). From that point, July 2017 through January 2019 I received 10 Radio Frequency Ablations on my neck and head. Burning off the nerves provided initial relief but, eventually petered out. I so badly wanted to be cured and get back to work. I kept receiving these intrusive procedures and they became physically harder to take.
I developed Neuritis which felt like fire works in my neck and my shoulders now were becoming decrepit. I lost ability to use my arms and shoulders properly. I believe (and so does my neurologist) that these ablations were having repercussions on my body and causing nerve damage. I was prescribed short term Gabapentin eventually followed by Lyrica and a few round and rounds between the 2 drugs due to insurance coverage.

During this time, headaches and severe migraines were playing a role but again, my head pain was more than migraine. Occipital neuralgia supposedly. After 2 neurologists,…chronic migraine was diagnosed and I began botox injections every 3 months. I felt like a HUMAN PINCUSHION for 2 years straight between 40 botox needles at a time to the head plus all those God awful needle entries to my head and neck from RFA's I then began the newly introduced migraine monthly self injections of Aimovig followed by Emgality and now Ajovy (they lose effectiveness for me after 8 months or so).

During these times, stranger things began throughout my body. Back and hip pain had begun developing. Toe and foot pain, along with hand pain. These pains all lead me to Orthopedic Drs. who x-rayed and said nothing's wrong, I must have sprained something. I wore a boot for the foot I couldn't walk on, a hand brace (from weeding too much – what? who gets a weeding injury). I had an MRI of my back…it showed a mild disc protrusion. Yeah, so what. Just like my neck, nothing major to be effecting me this way. I received epidurals in my back and started PT again. The common theme began to reveal that nothing majorly, structurally, was wrong with me. I felt too young to be falling apart to all these unexplained, tormenting pains. I myself, decided to go to a Rheumatologist to rule out fibromyalgia. The Dr said I have mirroring symptoms but, not fibro and suggested my Lyrica dose be increased.

January 2019, I had just had my final rounds of ablations and my pain was exacerbated from them, more than ever. In retrospect I believe I made a big mistake having too many and pushing for the reason of getting my life and job back. It backfired on me. The Fall prior began oddities in my body such as tingling in my hands. Pins and needles all over. My body was not neurologically right. In addition, I was exhausted, having palpitations and shortness of breath. These symptoms slowly grew and took over my body. I managed miserably to get through the holidays then went to my Neurologist in January. I explained through tears and frustration that something was wrong neurologically and if he couldn't figure it out I was going Mayo Clinic. It was finally then that he tested me via skin punch biopsy and diagnosed me with Small Fiber Polyneuropathy. Ahhh hahhhhhh, finally! I was not going crazy, it was not all in my head, there was a name for this chaos in my body.

And so it began…a thorough and extensive workup to find an underlying cause. A plethora of blood work and genetic testing. I had already had MRI's on my brain, neck and back. I had bloodwork drawn prior for SED rates when I was trouble shooting but, this testing lasted for 2 months. Immediately landed on a B12 deficiency. I began B12 injections every other week for months until my level regulated. I slowly had more energy and could breath better without my heart racing.

Now, we work on regulating and controlling nerve damage and pain . My neurologist says maybe 2 -3 years nerves will regenerate. It's a crap shoot. I stick with Lyrica, tried Cymbalta for over a year then weaned myself off because I had memory issues. Throughout my pain journey, I began taking Nucynta until my new insurance wouldn't cover it. I moved to Norco (hydrocodone) and added medical marijuana for when hydrocodone is not enough.

My body was increasingly feeling sunburned, pins and needles, electric shocks in my head and face, sharp unexpected pains throughout, burning and weakness. By spring of 2019, my legs started to die and walking became restricted. This was and still is my biggest fear. At the same time, with my body in a state of flux, I developed Chilblains on my feet with tenacious itching, red painful sores and my feet were flaring between red hot and blue, purple, grey colors. My neurologist claims it was from neuropathy. This bout brought me to a dermatologist, vascular and cardiologist for ample testing (echocardiogram, CT scans) and ruling out any other misfires. After this episode settled, my Neurologist suggestion lidocaine infusions to control pain. I sat for 5-6 hours in the apherisis unit of my local hospital every Monday for 5 months. Lidocaine is a slow drip infusion that increases dose based on body weight. I was "in it to win it" (similar to my radio frequency ablations) but, it was a failed experiment for me and offered minimal relief. Others receive benefit.

I also had a spinal tap to rule out autoimmune diseases. I do not have any, thank goodness. However, the spinal tap left me with a ferocious spinal headache which landed me in urgent care followed by the ER and needed a cocktail to stop the pain. Never in my life have I experienced something so painful. This all lead me to seek the help of a chronic pain psychology for 2 months. I needed help but found she wasn't the one to help. I got nothing from her. I am fortunate to depend on family and friends and Mayo Connect for my mental health support.

My suggestion to anyone with peripheral neuropathy or symptoms….please do your research and gain knowledge about your body. Be your our advocate. I learned the hard way that we're kind of on our own out here. Drs can only take you so far and dont have the time to care as we want them to. It's very important to find a good PCP (primary care physician) and establish a relationship. They will lead and direct to the best of their abilities. My PCP is wonderful! He is my hydrocodone prescriber. He recommended medical marijuana for my comfort. He wrote my disability letter and qualified me for long term disability both through my job and Social Security. I know he's got my back. I also take a supplement protocol, try to eat healthier, and keep active as best I can and practice mindfulness, breathing techniques and meditation. I also benefit from weekly myofacial release therapy. In June I will attend Mayo's Pain Rehabilitation Program for 3 weeks

Living with peripheral neuropathy in a constant battle. A 24/7 job. It takes mental strength and tenacity to not be defeated by it. It takes a village, if you will, to have all hands on deck, by way of medicine, mental health, holistic approaches etc… I say I still work but, no longer get paid. I'm sorry for the length of my story but, it was therapeutic for me and I thank you for reading it. I'm happy to help further should anyone need.

Be well-
Rachel

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I am awaiting results of my skin biopsy. I don't know what I want more: a negative or a positive. I have all the symptoms of peripheral neuropathy, but no proof since my MRI and EMG didn't show much except some problems with my neck and lower back (not enough to warrant surgery). I feel like people don't believe me because I look normal and continue to function (at about 25% of my previous self). I am waiting until I get new insurance to change my PCP who did nothing when my pain was off the charts. I know you wrote your experience years ago. How was the Rehab program?

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Good morning, I am new to the group and I have spent the last hour or so reading all of my fellow group members posts. I want to start off by saying that I appreciate all of you sharing your experiences, it has given me a wealth of information regarding peripherical neuropathy. I am currently 71 yrs. old. My story began approximately 10 yrs ago, on vacation after a busy day on my feet on tours, I had trouble putting on my shoes to wear for dinner. The following year I experienced several falls, one resulting in a concussion, followed by several more falls. My Primary Physician referred me to a neurologist and an otolaryngologist to seek out issues that might be contributing to the falls. I was diagnosed through testing by the neurologist through nerve testing and blood tests with peripherical neuropathy in my lower legs and feet. The otolaryngologist discovered and treated an imbalance in middle ear due to the falls which was corrected. I was began a regimen of supplements. My major problem is my feet feeling swollen and cold all the time. I am working with my imbalance issues, through Chair Yoga strengthening my leg muscles and standing with holding chair balance exercises. I feel breathless at times, it does limit my ability to walk long distances. We still travel, but I limit the excursions I take. Use OTC Biofreeze Gel for discomfort, socks all the time, but at times, my feet feel too cramped and sore, so go without the socks for a bit. Pressure stockings did not help. I am discouraged that my Neurologist has nothing to offer when I see him bi-yearly, just keep doing what I am doing is the message. I do pedicures once a month, and a massage quarterly to keep my skin hydrated and the muscles stimulated. I hope sharing my experience has helped anyone.

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