I don’t know how to find the person @freebird36 is talking about, but my suggestion would be to reach out to any and all churches in your area, people like to help and that way, you get a break and he gets to stay home. You can also look to see if there is a death doula in your area. I know that doesn’t sound good but that’s what they do, is help the caregiver with answers and resources. Try and reach out to your community or anyone you can. I’m heartbroken for you both, and I’m so sorry you’re having to do this alone! If you end up getting ill because you’re not getting the help you need sweetie, there will be no one to help either one of you. Please google Death Doula in my area, even if there from far away. They could help you over the phone or a zoom call if needed. I will do what I can to help you from Minnesota over the phone or the web, if you’d like me to? I’d be more than happy to help! Praying for some peace and comfort for both of you! You let me know what you think and I will do everything I can to help you find some help, I promise!