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Caregiving taking its toll: Stage 4 Glioblastoma & Lymphoma
Caregivers | Last Active: Apr 24, 2024 | Replies (24)Comment receiving replies
No better off, just check his vitals & off we go. BUT I decided to change our entire situation…we will be selling our home & moving to NH where our daughter & family are located.
She has been begging me for months; I decided because I am going to be 82 & I myself need a place - just can’t DO ALL THIS ALONE. Should have did this years ago.
I also think husbands care will be much better in a populated City in Manchester…so my advice to all - don’t wait until things get desperate to make decisions OR let emotional places or things freeze your thinking of what is best for all….
yes, ya spent a lifetime of deciding - now is the TIME to ‘let go’; but please, please don’t wait too long
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@saintdijo I think this could be a great idea. Will your daughter be able to help you with all the planning? Maybe you could go with him ahead of time, get him settled, and then return to sell the house. Just thinking about all the chaos that goes with selling and moving. (I’ve probably moved 30+ times in my life!). And you’re smart to decide to make a move while you can! Good advice for all of us. You’re a very strong and courageous woman!
What do you think will be the hardest part of this move for you and your husband?