my ob told me last week at my annual pap that she saw dryness...atrophy etc...she said she could prescribe a cream.etc..but i told her i'm in no pain cause i am not trying to have sex..and since my partner got prostrate cancer, he no longer mentions sex...and..when he kept telling me about seeing blood in his semen...that REALLY made me not want to even think about how he saw it or having sex again...ever....but before it was miserably unromantic cause how fun is it to use cream, be willing to give it a try....then unsuccessfully try to shove floppy soft tiny meatball like and a floppy spaghetti like organ into me?...how romantic is that? I know men like the feeing..but they should recognize age changes us...and embrace the new changes... it has been years that my mate(s) has/have been able to even get an erection that can last more than a few seconds...not even long enough to even get inside of me even if I am not dry...truly i am so over sex..i have no libido...why do men still want to do it when they are completely incapable? to me it's an exercise in futility... i just think it's more important to concentrate on being healthiest and dealing with cancer issues..which I always have to deal with in my situation too..i can be perfectly content in a sexless life..after having great sex for decades and decades..at my age it really is over-rated i think