@monive
That’s so frustrating. It sounds like these folks in Scottsdale may use conscious sedation. Since this is typically used for things like colonoscopies, sort of surprised that this is not offered. Your physician’s attitude is not a very empathic response. You are entitled to ask for some sedation.
I would continue to call around and see. You may need a referral to another hematologist/oncologist.
https://www.esmil.com/intervention-radiology/bone-marrow-biopsy.php
Sadly, there are many physicians and clinics that do not accept Advantage plans. They sound wonderful in their advertising on television, but if you have a serious health problem, they are sadly lacking.
I’m so sorry that you’re having this trouble. I would not be discouraged and change your mind about what it is that would make you feel comfortable, I would continue to look for the right resource.
I don’t know where it is that you live, but have you called around to some other places to see if you can get in? I just googled “sedation and bone marrow biopsy” for Scottsdale. There may be some people on Connect in your area who can help.
Would you please let us know how you are doing securing an appointment?