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Hi @monica19815 I’m right with you on the mask situation! Covid really did help to normalize mask wearing for some of us. But there is still a faction out there who have this deep seated anti-mask resistance for whatever reason. The newer N-95 masks are backed by research, statistics and data that support their efficacy and I trust the doctors at Mayo who promote my continued mask wearing. The N-95 masks that I wear when out in a store, elevators, home if visitors are with me, etc., have worked the past 5 years to keep me safe and healthy.

I don’t wear this particular type of mask now, but I began wearing the recommended VOG mask, day one, since my bone marrow transplant. This was a couple years before Covid. During that time the only place I saw others wearing a mask were in Rochester where I stayed for 4 months. It was so commonplace to see mask wearers that no one gave us a second glance. Big shock wave when I finally went back home after being so comfy in Rochester those many months. My first venture into the grocery store with my husband, I had been feeling so liberated! I’m finally home and out doing normal things!! Yay!! But that confidence was briefly shattered by an encounter with a little girl and her mom in one of the aisles. I was reaching for an item when the little girl blurted out, “Mommy, what’s wrong with that lady? Why does she have that mask on?” I was thinking this was a great teaching opportunity so I turned to say hi. But instead, the mom hurriedly grabbed the little girl and walked away, saying “I don’t know but we’re going to get as far away from her as we can so you don’t get sick!” What?? Lady, your kid posed more of a threat to me! What lesson did that teach her child? I can only imagine when Covid hit what their response was.
But on the plus side that day, there was a gentleman riding in an assisted cart who saw me and said, “Oh look at you, rockin’ that mask! You look gooood!” That made my day!! 🤣

Funny, it seems most of my encounters with naysayers are in grocery stores. The older woman I was talking about in my previous comment caught me so off guard, I could only laugh! What she said and the way she said it was just so absurd! She wasn’t worth my time but there are occasions when someone will ask about why I’m wearing a mask. Sometimes I’ll explain about the transplant but most of the time I just say I have a compromised immune system and leave it at that. My biggest problem is that I tend to be snarky and most people who are already upset with my mask wearing don’t take kindly top be being flippant. LOL.

I love that you wear a mask when you’re feeling ill so as not to share with everyone else. It just makes sense and I wish everyone was as thoughtful. ☺️

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When I was in Japan, pre-Covid, masks of course were totally normal and not just in the big cities. Everyone wore them if they had a cold, were feeling allergic, or were riding a bicycle in traffic exhaust fumes. No more comment-worthy than a hat. You'll just have to think of yourself as in the vanguard of a healthy trend! I almost died of swine flu in 1976 ad have been worried every flu season since--paradoxically less worried during the height of required mask wearing and covid. Keep rocking.