Living with someone on high-dose long-term prednisone
I’d love to hear other people’s experiences of living with someone on high-dose, long-term prednisone. My husband has PMR and a serious case of GCA (giant cell arthritis) and I feel awful for what he’s going through. I’m doing my best to support him and advocate for him. In the meantime, he just went down from 80 mg prednisone to 70 mg and tapering is going to take time. He’s also taking Actemra injections weekly. The prednisone really affects his moods and personality. Suffice it to say he’s difficult to live with. It would be nice to hear from others who have gone through this and how they coped. I hate to even complain and feel blessed that he’s out of pain and things have stabilized. His levels were so bad he ended up in the hospital last month with three days of 1200 mg IV infusions of methylprednisolone. It’s not been easy and I feel awful for what he’s going through.
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Wow!! You have really been through a lot!! Thank you for explaining it to me. I hope you remain pain free.
I did have my inflammatory markers measured and saw the results online. They were normal but 2nd round were higher. I want to have them tested again next week along with some more labs including CBD and some auto -immune tests .
Thanks for the kind, comforting words.
Do hope your husband is off these drugs soon.
Best to both of you.
Last July I was hospitalized for PMR and GCA and all I can tell you is, he needs you. And thank you for your compassion. The steroids are difficult to cope with. And yet they are life saving. Things will get better. After almost a year I am way down on dosage. I have flare ups and have needed to adjust the mg’s to this flare ups. But things will get better.
Thank you.
@glinda47
Thank you! We got his inflammation levels back today (CRP and ESR) and they are both normal!! The CRP is the lowest it's been since he got PMR in May 2023 and GCA in Feb 2024. I feel the Actemra is helping him and pray we can get him off prednisone. He was on 80 mg starting late Feb and has tapered to 70 mg but that is still way too high. We'll get there, slowly but surely. She's having him do labs every two weeks now and will continue with the prednisone taper.
I think you're very wise to have more tests done. And I really hope you don't get GCA. Be your own advocate and do your research! Ask lots of questions and if you really feel you need something like a particular test, fight for it. I've had to fight for everything my husband has gotten. Including his temporal artery biopsy. If I hadn't, his diagnosis would have been TMJ and stress headaches (even though he had PMR with all the GCA symptoms other than vision loss, and even though I told this to his former rheumatologist - former is the key word). She just did not want to believe me that he could have GCA which I thought was absolutely insane. Especially with what was at risk. In the end, after his biopsy, after he was resistant to normal treatment to GCA and ended up hospitalized with 1200 mg infusions of methylprednisolone, she finally admitted his was the worse case of GCA she's ever seen. Yet not a single apology for fighting me every step of the way, making me sound like an idiot when I questioned her. We now are very fortunate to have the chief of rheumatology as his doctor. I've decided I will be filing a formal complaint about what happened since I have everything so well documented. Otherwise, this might happen to someone else. I feel my husband, without proper treatment, could have ended up with a stroke, aneurism, blindness or worse. I was watching him deteriorate before my eyes. So fight for yourself!!!!!
So glad to hear of your husband's progress.
What a horrifying story. Omigosh. Why all the fighting to be tested? Seems like docs don't want to test you and I don't understand it. There must be incentive not to test from the labs. That is inhumane at the very least.
Thank the universe you were there to fight for him even when the "doctor" was dead wrong.
She should absolutely not be practicing.
May you both continue to heal from this terrifying experience. He is very fortunate to have you, Isabelle.
My former wife was on high doses of Prednisone (80 mg daily) for Lupus in the 89s and 90s. It didn't bring on rage but did bring on weight gain, which affected her self-image.
@glinda47
Thanks for your kind words. I agree with you about the doctor. Not sure if I mentioned it here or not, but I am planning to put everything together and file a formal complaint (I have lots of documentation which will support my claim). I don't want this to happen to someone else. What if he didn't have me to advocate for him? He was too sick to advocate for himself. Very fortunately we are on the right path with a new doctor who is on top of it all and very knowledgable. She seems to have no issues at all asking for labs and other tests so I'm not sure why the other one seemed to either doubt me or not know much about these diseases. Which would be hard to imagine given she's a rheumatologist.
Most people seem to gain weight on high dose prednisone. He's lost weight. He's leveled out now and isn't losing. His inflammation levels are back to normal so the doctor reduced him from 80 mg a month ago to 70 mg a couple weeks ago and now to 60 mg. She said when we're at lower doses she will taper more slowly. For now, this is working with weekly Actemra injections.
Seems appropriate to me to file against this woman. She did not do her job which involves matters of life, death and other devastation, such as blindness!!! I notice the reluctance sometimes with docs to run comprehensive labs that can be so revealing of disease, etc. I understand that there are few real specialists in this country, ones who have the passion, humanity, brains and work ethic to really dig in, research and get to the bottom of an illness.
They have saved people who literally did not want to live anymore and had been to 50-60 docs, specialists included and no one could help them.
Thankfully, your experience turned out well.
Wishing you the best.
My father in law lost vision in one eye and had an aneurysm from GCA. Terrible disease, demand bloodwork.