I just saw your post. I am sorry you are dealing with the same issue. I guess it makes me feel “better” to know it isn’t just me. One friend told me I was being too needy when I kept asking to hear from him once a week in an email. Now he won’t even talk to me. I also was told that since I am “privileged” I should not be having as much grief. I am still trying to figure that one out. If privilege keeps you from grieving then why do so many famous and rich people have grief. I read that Regis Philbin’s wife still isolates herself from others and he has been gone about three years. I would say she is pretty privileged too. I tell people that until it has happened to you, you have no idea how bad it is and how lonely it is when your spouse dies.