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My husband was diagnosed with MCI in 2012, his decline was slow for the first 8 years, but he has rapidly gone downhill since then.

Trying to manage his moods and difficultness is certainly a challenge. I work hard to keep our days calm and, on a routine, although his agitation can rise from nowhere. Especially late afternoon when he’s tired and not my best time of day either.
I try to keep a smile on my face and a happy tone in my voice, although I’m not always successful.
When he gets agitated, sometimes I leave the room for a few minutes and come back with a big smile on my face and some distraction or a story. It doesn’t always work and trust me I don’t always feel like it either.

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Wow! This must take so much out of you. My husband is 80 and the diagnosis was about 6 months ago although symptoms were evident well before the diagnosis. He is on 2 medications that may plateau the trajectory but it is hard to tell whether or not it is successful. I am not good yet at managing my own hurt and anger...it lingers after an outburst. I admire your ability to leave the room but return with a smile and happy manner. However, this is the most productive approach and I will work at improving this strategy. TY