Well now that you have the diagnosis, I know I had nervousness but also felt okay knowing what it was. Then went into the planning stage. It is hard for people to understand that have not dealt with someone with cancer before. I know some of my family acted like it was no big deal. Others cried and questioned lots of things. The ones that acted like it was no big deal told me they wanted to be strong for me. Honestly I’d rather have them be that way. The other way, I’m trying to comfort the ones who are crying and end up not wanting to tell them anything. Others, just don’t know about cancer or fighting it. That’s why this group is so helpful!