@guate I can only imagine how difficult this must be for you. And missing appointments must really be difficult. Have you thought about talking with the doctor about having virtual appointments? Your wife wouldn't have to move anywhere but you’d still have the appointment. Just ask the office where she sees her doctor.
Do you have anyone who helps you? Or a way to get out of the house occasionally? Your health is so important!
Have you found any caregiver support groups in your area?
Let me know if you think the idea of virtual appointments could work!